Marriage for men — The Bonanza Deal
Trust one, Get 5 Free, Lose everything
This article focuses on misuse of women appeasement laws (by unscrupulous women) on married men. Marriage -once a sanctum of trust and relationship has now turned into an extortion racket for unscrupulous women against men. Let’s look at the framework of attack on men by these “empowered” women.
The Bonanza Deal details
Trust One
Men, trust one Wife. They commit their heart and soul to these unscrupulous women not knowing their sinister intentions. It’s not very late until men start reaping benefits of the relationship as outlined in the next section.
Get upto 5 Free
Please note that the package deal may vary but as a Husband , you are ensured at least 3 or more of following benefits for absolutely no cost , i.e. FREE , FREE , FREE
- Daily nagging and pestering from Wife
- Get frequent threats from In-laws (Wife’s relatives) to keep their daughter “happy” . It’s a different matter — she will never be happy.
- Suicide threats from wife
- False civil cases — CrPC 125, Domestic Violence Act (PWDVA)
- False criminal cases — IPC 498a , 377 and many others (Our Judiciary of course had made laws with good intent — ahem , ahem — no doubt in that)
Lose everything
I have sorted the losses in descending order of importance for a man’s life
- Lose your life by suicide: The ultimate drream of an unscruplous wife since she cannot get your property/assets/money unless you are dead. Even better, she has a chance to play victim and find another scapegoat. Examples of men who committed suicide -
- Actor Sandeep Nahar suicide due to domestic violence by wife — Youtube link
- IAS officer Mukesh Pandey’s suicide due to marital issues — Newreport link
- CRPF Jawan kills himself due to marital problem — Indiatoday link
- and Many more (please google search)
- Lose your self respect and dignity : Keep appeasing Wife endlessly (Actor Nawazuddin Siddiqui’s case)
- Lose access to your child : Alienating father from child is the biggest weapon wife uses — for extorting money and forcing Husband to adhere to her demands. (Abhinish Singh case)
- Lose your parents : Because you need to take care of only Wife . Else they will be booked for harassing their daughter-in-law for dowry , physical abuse and what not . Its a different matter, your parents may not have even thought of these things.
- Lose your siblings : Else they will be booked under false harassment charges
- Lose money : In 3 Stages -
- While married — Unending materialistic demands(travel , jewellery), siphoning husband’s hard earned money to own relatives(Example case)
- During pending litigation — Court fees, Lawyers, Police, Interim maintenance. Husband will have to pay even for Wife’s false charges and cases.
- After divorce — Lifetime maintenance or/and Alimony(Supreme Court , 2017 , Newsreport link) — which Court will ask you to pay even if your subsistence is endangered. Following is order from Punjab and Haryana High Court , 2018- “The husband must beg, borrow, steal to pay maintenance to divorced wife”(Link1 , Link2)
- Lose your friends : Since quality time can be only with Wife, not with friends. The friends are just intrusions in Husband’s lives, though the friends intentions will be much nobler than the wife’s.
- Lose your assets & home
- Since Judiciary will award alimony to even deserted wife
- Since wife can occupy your home under the biased Domestic Violence Act — which “Protects” women (actually only the daughter in law , not the husbands mother or sister or any other woman relative)
- Lose your mental peace
- If no cases are filed yet : No amount of care will keep Wife happy AND
2. if court cases are filed : You will be under endless pressure and torture from Police and Judiciary — since for them you are always a perpetrator and Wife is always a victim
- Lose your job or business : Since you need to prove to Court and society your innocence while the perpetrator Wife of false cases plays the victim card
- Lose your hobbies and passion :Since Wife’s passion has supreme importance. Husbands passion , hobbies , needs don’t have any place in the “women empowered” world.
Reasons for the Injustice on Men (Bonanza Deal benefits)
- Unwarranted Women appeasement laws
- Indian judiciary and law system’s biased attitude against men
Cure to this Extortion Racket called Marriage
So, what can men do to protect themselves from unscrupulous women, since the case varies and may be unpredictable before marriage ? It’s very simple. Knowledge of Women biased laws is of utmost importance before plunging into marriage.
Call to action
So dear men and victimized mothers/sisters — A SHOUT OUT TO YOU
- Unmarried men — Learn laws of maintenance and alimony before marriage. Decide if the bonanza deal is really worth the risk — logically ABSOLUTELY NO. But you decide your life. It’s after all yours.
- Married men(Victim / Not victim at the moment) — Spread the word of biased laws and help the unmarried men.
- Victimized Mothers/Sisters — Share stories of misuse of laws on your sons/brothers so that other families can guard themselves.